We are human being. We have feelings and emotions which make us act according to them. We too have a feeling of love on someone or something. In the context of love between human being, we may fall in love with many people and wanted to be loved by them. The love between two people, especially in a relationship, depends on the how two-person see, care and respect each other. For Example, Suddenly you have met a person you think is the only source you need to be happy. So, you start undermining your work, ignoring your other priorities, and make them the top one. It’s understandable if it was like that only in the beginning you both were excited then. But, if it has been years and you can’t say no to them anymore; you fear that if you disappointed them, they will leave you; the only way to keep them is by doing whatever they wish to, then you’ve murdered your self.
There are many reasons why people are stuck in a garbage relationship. One of the main reason is that you think that you will never find such a good person in the context of physical appearance and in such great sex like them. Every person in a relationship thinks their partner is special. According to that logic, every single person in a relationship is special. If so many people in this world were special, the word ‘special’ would have no meaning. In fact, they are not special that's your assumption because you only have limited experiences in your life. You might not know anything about them and they may not be as you think in reality. The lack of true data about them can ruin your relationship in the future. Always the reality is worse than you expected which might not be. Only seeing them in their intimate moment and emotional highs and lows don't mean you know them better than anyone else. You think that they don't have anybody like you.
The relationship may lead to unhappiness if your happiness is blindly dependent on the others. If your partner matters more than yourself in making you happy then there may be high chances of storming your happiness by them in future. Being in a relationship doesn't mean giving authority of your self to others. The self-respect shouldn't be compromised and replaced by anything in a relationship. So if you are in a relationship then it is not good to give the authority of all your happiness and unhappiness to your partner. This may lead you to a sad and depressive situation. Many people after a breakup, see what their partner is doing? Are they happy then they used to be then? So my suggestion is Once you leave, never ever look back. Do not try and find out what is happening with them, how they are, what they are doing, what they are uploading on social media. Close that chapter completely from your life.
Be completely invested in knowing your ‘self’, because it will provide you with all sorts of amazing possibilities for your future.
